MatureDJ
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
article: Five Reasons Your Wife Won't Have Sex with You
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
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Umm no. Most of that shyt if you do it, it kills the masculine feminine polarity and she'll lose attraction.
resilient
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Terrible blue pill advice, lol. She needs the husband to do things that regain her interest level. Vacuuming the house, laundry, and pandering to every whim and she’ll lose respect for him.
It would be more beneficial to work on himself to raise her interest in attraction. Being lazy though will drive her interest level down fast in general...
It would be more beneficial to work on himself to raise her interest in attraction. Being lazy though will drive her interest level down fast in general...
Do you guys really believe doing dishes and laundry somehow lowers your masculinity? How weak is your frame that keeping your house in order lowers your attractiveness to a woman? Now, I'm not saying do everything for a woman, she should be putting in as much work and more if you're the one working fifty hours a week. But I think being sloppy at home is weak and that's why women start complaining. It's not about you pandering to her every whim, it's about you not handling your life. The masculine/feminine dynamic is not about housework/career, it's about the meta narrative of your relationship. It's about being a leader. If a woman is being unreasonable and you're doing all the work, then yeah, put your foot down and put it down hard. But don't hand over the running of your castle to the woman either. You are the leader, act like it.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
marmel75
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If their wives wont have sex with them its because they dont feel they can get it anywhere else, they arent attracted to them anymore because they have gotten fat and out of shape or they can't fvck good to make them want that d!ck.
My wife knows better on the first one, she definitely still wants to fvck me and I still put it down like thunder.
My wife knows better on the first one, she definitely still wants to fvck me and I still put it down like thunder.
mrgoodstuff
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You can do some chores and help out . But you shouldn't do more than her . You also shouldn't Dominate at doing the traditional female chores, let her do it too.
Never do these chores hoping she will like you more. That mindset drives down attraction
Be focused on your purpose and hobbies, have passion there. Use time with her sparingly and careful with your attention and validation.
Fvck her often and how you want it .
Never do these chores hoping she will like you more. That mindset drives down attraction
Be focused on your purpose and hobbies, have passion there. Use time with her sparingly and careful with your attention and validation.
Fvck her often and how you want it .
Who Dares Win
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I'm fine throwing out the trash, deal with the garden or move heavy weights...basically anything that is too heavy or too dangerous for her.
But if something is boring or feminine, no way I'm gonna do it...never received complains about it btw.
But if something is boring or feminine, no way I'm gonna do it...never received complains about it btw.
mrgoodstuff
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The key is that even if you were okay with the other stuff you have to manage it because it truly can fvck up the masculine feminine polarity in the household.
Some of us guys were trying to.be overly Supportive and did this by accident .
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Agree on that, sometime even if you wanna help, such help will be counterproductive for both.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I’ll do the dishes, etc. at MY house but there will never be another OUR house for me to do them at. I’m at that point where I still date but will never live with another woman ever again. There’s nothing in that deal for me.