"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
arousal vs attraction how to be arousal with women?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BoostedArrow
Don Juan
How to develop your alpha side?
www.sosuave.net
I've asked the same here once.
Most here in the forum aren't a fan of Rollo.
What you can do (according to Rollo):
-Gym (obviously)
-Be your own Mental Point of Origin
-Evil is sexy (he did like two shows about that, so check that out.)
If you find more, I'd be interested to hear.
what is meant by evil can you give me a short answer?How to develop your alpha side?
Rollo uses the phrase "Alpha ****s, Beta bucks." for the two sides of female hypergamy. Since I'm very young (20), it makes more sense to work on my "alpha" side, bc. girls my age are more attracted (or aroused as Rollo says it) to that than to a "good faithful provider". Now I don't wanna be...
I've asked the same here once.
Most here in the forum aren't a fan of Rollo.
What you can do (according to Rollo):
-Gym (obviously)
-Be your own Mental Point of Origin
-Evil is sexy (he did like two shows about that, so check that out.)
If you find more, I'd be interested to hear.
BoostedArrow
Don Juan
Dark Triad.
Basically this whole badboy/*******/jerk thing.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I’m not sure it’s ‘evil’ per se. I’d say breaking rules & defying authority is s turn on for many women. Any girl that would get turned on by you kicking dogs & robbing kids is damaged goods.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.