"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
arousal vs attraction how to be arousal with women?
- Thread starter jiggolo71
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BoostedArrow
Don Juan
How to develop your alpha side?
www.sosuave.net
I've asked the same here once.
Most here in the forum aren't a fan of Rollo.
What you can do (according to Rollo):
-Gym (obviously)
-Be your own Mental Point of Origin
-Evil is sexy (he did like two shows about that, so check that out.)
If you find more, I'd be interested to hear.
what is meant by evil can you give me a short answer?How to develop your alpha side?
Rollo uses the phrase "Alpha ****s, Beta bucks." for the two sides of female hypergamy. Since I'm very young (20), it makes more sense to work on my "alpha" side, bc. girls my age are more attracted (or aroused as Rollo says it) to that than to a "good faithful provider". Now I don't wanna be...
I've asked the same here once.
Most here in the forum aren't a fan of Rollo.
What you can do (according to Rollo):
-Gym (obviously)
-Be your own Mental Point of Origin
-Evil is sexy (he did like two shows about that, so check that out.)
If you find more, I'd be interested to hear.
BoostedArrow
Don Juan
Dark Triad.
Basically this whole badboy/*******/jerk thing.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I’m not sure it’s ‘evil’ per se. I’d say breaking rules & defying authority is s turn on for many women. Any girl that would get turned on by you kicking dogs & robbing kids is damaged goods.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.