"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Are you a good looking guy who got dumped by a chick below your standards?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
KneghtRyder
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you consider yourself good looking...and more so that as a mate value for women.verysuave said:
how old are you ?
p.s. nothing wrong with the question, just curious to know where your coming from
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
mexican_player2
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WaterTiger
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This is true! I was out with a friend of mine and she's a "butter-face" (Everything about her is pretty but her face) We were having lunch and our waiter was a really cute guy!ryannath said:
He was being a little flirty with her, but still professional, she was very rude to him. I didn't see a problem with his behavior. Later she said that "Pretty boys like him are only after a fast fvck! They are worthless ass-holes!" I told her her self esteem was in need of improvement...she was *****y for the rest of the day.
I have seen guys do it as well. Some nasty little toad of a guy walks up to a HB9 and says something like: "You aren't my type, but I'll do you if you pay me enough." It's an AFC doing C&F brutally.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think the ugly chicks aren't used to being around guys so they don't know how to handle them very well.
Francisco d'Anconia
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:crackup:WaterTiger said:
:crackup:Oh that was salty....
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ValleyDJing
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Then you have a lot of attractive women who only care about looks...and they can be brutal to the less attractive guys.
Smart and attractive women still like the hot guys...but look for substance as well.
There's a big difference between being a skinny good looking guy, and a muscular good looking guy.
Also, lest we forget, personality plays a large role.
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BluEyes said:
Maybe im not a 10 but my gf is an 8 and she finds me very attractive.
REALLY ugly girls have rejected me when i was younger ( had a lot of testosterone and wanted to bang everygirl) and now that i look at them i be like damn i wouldnt even touch that piece of chit
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she was a number 5
i remember one time i asked out a girl in my school and she was a bit chubby and a geek but kinda cute face ( wtf was i thinkin) she said yeah and i told her to meet at a certain place and i waited and she never arrived then when i saw her she made the most ridicuously excuse.
counterpart
She was a number 8.5
I was at the beach in the hotel's spa and this 2 hot chicks came to me and start talking then i started spittin some game and i chose the hottest one and closed the deal.
So maybe im not that hot, but i rather get accepted by fine fine ass girls rather than rejected by some ugly rats
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.