“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are you a good looking guy who got dumped by a chick below your standards?

verysuave

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You've gone out with super hot chicks but then there was this chick who wasnt a pretty rejected you. Ever happened to you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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christz

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your bitter i can tell.. that's what you get for

1.) settleing
and
2.) not sargeing women that meet your standard

oh and no i haven't anytime i been dumped has been with a girl i wanted and was above or at my standard
 

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verysuave said:
You've gone out with super hot chicks but then there was this chick who wasnt a pretty rejected you. Ever happened to you?
you consider yourself good looking...and more so that as a mate value for women.

how old are you ?

p.s. nothing wrong with the question, just curious to know where your coming from
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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very suave the same **** happens to me!!!, i remember getting rejected by some 3s and 4s and then i got with the 8s that accept me, its fuked up
 

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Happens to me too. I get told I am good looking by women. (not bragging) I get rejected by 6's that are below me, but about 8's they seem to accept me. I think if they are below the guy that much, they kinda think they won't have what it takes, so they reject to protect their ego.
 

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should u care? If you were AFC you should. The last thing on your mind is worrying abut a chick leaving you. LAST THING.
 

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ryannath said:
I think if they are below the guy that much, they kinda think they won't have what it takes, so they reject to protect their ego.
This is true! I was out with a friend of mine and she's a "butter-face" (Everything about her is pretty but her face) We were having lunch and our waiter was a really cute guy!

He was being a little flirty with her, but still professional, she was very rude to him. I didn't see a problem with his behavior. Later she said that "Pretty boys like him are only after a fast fvck! They are worthless ass-holes!" I told her her self esteem was in need of improvement...she was *****y for the rest of the day.

I have seen guys do it as well. Some nasty little toad of a guy walks up to a HB9 and says something like: "You aren't my type, but I'll do you if you pay me enough." It's an AFC doing C&F brutally.
 

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mexican_player2 said:
very suave the same **** happens to me!!!, i remember getting rejected by some 3s and 4s and then i got with the 8s that accept me, its fuked up
Really.. whew, i thought it was just me. Just wanted to also point this out that this thread is pretty informative. Yeah, im talking about you Deus ex Pianoforte. Efing troll

ryannath said:
ppens to me too. I get told I am good looking by women. (not bragging) I get rejected by 6's that are below me, but about 8's they seem to accept me. I think if they are below the guy that much, they kinda think they won't have what it takes, so they reject to protect their ego.
good analysis
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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happened to me

dunno wtf i was thinking at the time

sure as sh|t glad she rejected me now though

stupid fat ugly *****, never get another chance of having a bf in her life
 

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The girl can be butt ugly, but if you act like a desperate, AFC who worships the ground she walks on, then even she will start to think that she can do better.
 

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this type of thing happens to me. Not getting dumped really -- because I wouldn't date an ugly girl -- but being blown off at places. Dance parties and stuff

I think the ugly chicks aren't used to being around guys so they don't know how to handle them very well.
 

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WaterTiger said:
... I was out with a friend of mine and she's a "butter-face" (Everything about her is pretty but her face) ...
:crackup: :up: :crackup:

Oh that was salty....
 

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yeah, I think it happens 'cos they see you as too good for them so you could'nt possibly "really" be into them, you're probably just using them for a quick fuuk and then dump 'em, so they reject you to protect themselves. (If you think about it, can't really blame them either...)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is just another stupid ass thread created by somebody looking for attention and affirmation. You're trying to create an excuse to brag by thinly veiling this thread as a vague, unimportant question. Then somebody calls them out on it (Duex) and the OP gets his panties in a bunch and resorts back to calling that person the oldest diss in the SoSuave book (troll or AFC). Its so predictable. :moon:
 

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I think less attractive women are less impressed by a guys appearance and more impressed by his substance. Those girls also get led on just to be teased by a lot of guys in high school. I had a neighbor growing up who really wasn't very attractive at all and the cuter guys who were mean would lead her on and let her think they liked her and then publicly crush and humiliate her. I would imagine that she would not trust good looking guys after those cruel experiences.

Then you have a lot of attractive women who only care about looks...and they can be brutal to the less attractive guys.

Smart and attractive women still like the hot guys...but look for substance as well.
 

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Same could go the other way. Although not to the same extent, but if I can't have a conversation with her and she annoys me, it will not last. A smart woman will find a million partners. A smart man looking for a smart woman is dangerously single
 

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Mabye you "good looking" guys aren't as good looking as u think u are...

There's a big difference between being a skinny good looking guy, and a muscular good looking guy.

Also, lest we forget, personality plays a large role.
 
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BluEyes said:
Mabye you "good looking" guys aren't as good looking as u think u are...

There's a big difference between being a skinny good looking guy, and a muscular good looking guy.

Also, lest we forget, personality plays a large role.

Maybe im not a 10 but my gf is an 8 and she finds me very attractive.

REALLY ugly girls have rejected me when i was younger ( had a lot of testosterone and wanted to bang everygirl) and now that i look at them i be like damn i wouldnt even touch that piece of chit

Comparations

she was a number 5

i remember one time i asked out a girl in my school and she was a bit chubby and a geek but kinda cute face ( wtf was i thinkin) she said yeah and i told her to meet at a certain place and i waited and she never arrived then when i saw her she made the most ridicuously excuse.

counterpart

She was a number 8.5

I was at the beach in the hotel's spa and this 2 hot chicks came to me and start talking then i started spittin some game and i chose the hottest one and closed the deal.


So maybe im not that hot, but i rather get accepted by fine fine ass girls rather than rejected by some ugly rats
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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