Centaurion
Master Don Juan
how about posting a pic W


You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Figure the odds...Originally posted by Centaurion
how about posting a pic W
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Bullsh*tOriginally posted by PRMoon
Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
You're going a little overboard with that one. I like petite chicks, but that does not imply I like those walking boards with no ass or tits. There is a difference.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Well, the guys who think any female whose physique doesn't resemble a 12 year old boy is fat have issues. Anorexic looking girls/women look like pre-pubescent boys...no boobs, no curves, just a walking board. They should just save their time and money and go find a tree with a knot hole in it.![]()
Originally posted by PRMoon
Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
Think about how many girls in america are starving themselves to loose a few pounds. Binge eating and bulima are a the norm for many girls because they want to look thinner or in their mind prettier.
It's not a new concept, it's been ground into our psyche since we were born.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well, based on the fact that I didn't see any fat rolls on either of them I would say she's probably "thick" but not "fat". She's wearing a bra that is too small for her, though, which is why her boobs look funky.Originally posted by Vincent
You're going a little overboard with that one. I like petite chicks, but that does not imply I like those walking boards with no ass or tits. There is a difference.
PS: that chick is still fat by anyones standards. If you had a better pic I'm sure you would agree.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Media has a huge impact on the human psyche including our basis for attraction. I've read NUMEROUS studies on this very subject. To try to exclude it and say that attraction is solely based on primortial instincts is ignorant to the reality of the world we live in.Originally posted by Vincent
Bullsh*t
Media doesn't make us want a certain type of girl. Our instincts as human being does.
petite or skinny chicks. Media just dictates what we want to see. They don't make us into something we see.
Agree with PRMoon on this one.Originally posted by PRMoon
Media has a huge impact on the human psyche including our basis for attraction. I've read NUMEROUS studies on this very subject. To try to exclude it and say that attraction is solely based on primortial instincts is ignorant to the reality of the world we live in.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm currently trying to date a girl who's definately not the "perfect image" of a woman. I'm even kinda scared about how much I like her, but looks are really the secondary feature. She's very intelligent (a near 4.0 student goin to lawschool) and speaks her mind on ALL subjects (not only does she hold her own but she dominates in a lot of feilds). I like her more for who she is rather then what she looks like, and it captivates me more then any otherwise more "attractive" girl would.Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Yeah, and its guys like you that only help the obscene standard of beauty.
And AMEN, Wyldfire
I think they are real...just stuffed into the wrong bra and the photo angle makes them look bigger than they actually are. Look at the other pictures I linked to and they don't look as big.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.