Centaurion
Master Don Juan
how about posting a pic W


Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Figure the odds...Originally posted by Centaurion
how about posting a pic W
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Bullsh*tOriginally posted by PRMoon
Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
You're going a little overboard with that one. I like petite chicks, but that does not imply I like those walking boards with no ass or tits. There is a difference.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Well, the guys who think any female whose physique doesn't resemble a 12 year old boy is fat have issues. Anorexic looking girls/women look like pre-pubescent boys...no boobs, no curves, just a walking board. They should just save their time and money and go find a tree with a knot hole in it.![]()
Originally posted by PRMoon
Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
Think about how many girls in america are starving themselves to loose a few pounds. Binge eating and bulima are a the norm for many girls because they want to look thinner or in their mind prettier.
It's not a new concept, it's been ground into our psyche since we were born.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well, based on the fact that I didn't see any fat rolls on either of them I would say she's probably "thick" but not "fat". She's wearing a bra that is too small for her, though, which is why her boobs look funky.Originally posted by Vincent
You're going a little overboard with that one. I like petite chicks, but that does not imply I like those walking boards with no ass or tits. There is a difference.
PS: that chick is still fat by anyones standards. If you had a better pic I'm sure you would agree.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Media has a huge impact on the human psyche including our basis for attraction. I've read NUMEROUS studies on this very subject. To try to exclude it and say that attraction is solely based on primortial instincts is ignorant to the reality of the world we live in.Originally posted by Vincent
Bullsh*t
Media doesn't make us want a certain type of girl. Our instincts as human being does.
petite or skinny chicks. Media just dictates what we want to see. They don't make us into something we see.
Agree with PRMoon on this one.Originally posted by PRMoon
Media has a huge impact on the human psyche including our basis for attraction. I've read NUMEROUS studies on this very subject. To try to exclude it and say that attraction is solely based on primortial instincts is ignorant to the reality of the world we live in.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm currently trying to date a girl who's definately not the "perfect image" of a woman. I'm even kinda scared about how much I like her, but looks are really the secondary feature. She's very intelligent (a near 4.0 student goin to lawschool) and speaks her mind on ALL subjects (not only does she hold her own but she dominates in a lot of feilds). I like her more for who she is rather then what she looks like, and it captivates me more then any otherwise more "attractive" girl would.Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Yeah, and its guys like you that only help the obscene standard of beauty.
And AMEN, Wyldfire
I think they are real...just stuffed into the wrong bra and the photo angle makes them look bigger than they actually are. Look at the other pictures I linked to and they don't look as big.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.