Centaurion
Master Don Juan
how about posting a pic W


That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Figure the odds...Originally posted by Centaurion
how about posting a pic W
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Bullsh*tOriginally posted by PRMoon
Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
You're going a little overboard with that one. I like petite chicks, but that does not imply I like those walking boards with no ass or tits. There is a difference.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Well, the guys who think any female whose physique doesn't resemble a 12 year old boy is fat have issues. Anorexic looking girls/women look like pre-pubescent boys...no boobs, no curves, just a walking board. They should just save their time and money and go find a tree with a knot hole in it.![]()
Originally posted by PRMoon
Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
Think about how many girls in america are starving themselves to loose a few pounds. Binge eating and bulima are a the norm for many girls because they want to look thinner or in their mind prettier.
It's not a new concept, it's been ground into our psyche since we were born.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well, based on the fact that I didn't see any fat rolls on either of them I would say she's probably "thick" but not "fat". She's wearing a bra that is too small for her, though, which is why her boobs look funky.Originally posted by Vincent
You're going a little overboard with that one. I like petite chicks, but that does not imply I like those walking boards with no ass or tits. There is a difference.
PS: that chick is still fat by anyones standards. If you had a better pic I'm sure you would agree.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Media has a huge impact on the human psyche including our basis for attraction. I've read NUMEROUS studies on this very subject. To try to exclude it and say that attraction is solely based on primortial instincts is ignorant to the reality of the world we live in.Originally posted by Vincent
Bullsh*t
Media doesn't make us want a certain type of girl. Our instincts as human being does.
petite or skinny chicks. Media just dictates what we want to see. They don't make us into something we see.
Agree with PRMoon on this one.Originally posted by PRMoon
Media has a huge impact on the human psyche including our basis for attraction. I've read NUMEROUS studies on this very subject. To try to exclude it and say that attraction is solely based on primortial instincts is ignorant to the reality of the world we live in.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm currently trying to date a girl who's definately not the "perfect image" of a woman. I'm even kinda scared about how much I like her, but looks are really the secondary feature. She's very intelligent (a near 4.0 student goin to lawschool) and speaks her mind on ALL subjects (not only does she hold her own but she dominates in a lot of feilds). I like her more for who she is rather then what she looks like, and it captivates me more then any otherwise more "attractive" girl would.Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Yeah, and its guys like you that only help the obscene standard of beauty.
And AMEN, Wyldfire
I think they are real...just stuffed into the wrong bra and the photo angle makes them look bigger than they actually are. Look at the other pictures I linked to and they don't look as big.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.