Centaurion
Master Don Juan
how about posting a pic W


Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Figure the odds...Originally posted by Centaurion
how about posting a pic W
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Bullsh*tOriginally posted by PRMoon
Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
You're going a little overboard with that one. I like petite chicks, but that does not imply I like those walking boards with no ass or tits. There is a difference.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Well, the guys who think any female whose physique doesn't resemble a 12 year old boy is fat have issues. Anorexic looking girls/women look like pre-pubescent boys...no boobs, no curves, just a walking board. They should just save their time and money and go find a tree with a knot hole in it.![]()
Originally posted by PRMoon
Why is that? I mean our society conditions us (women and men) to be very superficial about what we find attractive. Look at the light that supermodels are put in. Countless magazines, Television, Movies, Advertizing just about every form of media depicts thin women as the ideal woman.
Think about how many girls in america are starving themselves to loose a few pounds. Binge eating and bulima are a the norm for many girls because they want to look thinner or in their mind prettier.
It's not a new concept, it's been ground into our psyche since we were born.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well, based on the fact that I didn't see any fat rolls on either of them I would say she's probably "thick" but not "fat". She's wearing a bra that is too small for her, though, which is why her boobs look funky.Originally posted by Vincent
You're going a little overboard with that one. I like petite chicks, but that does not imply I like those walking boards with no ass or tits. There is a difference.
PS: that chick is still fat by anyones standards. If you had a better pic I'm sure you would agree.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Media has a huge impact on the human psyche including our basis for attraction. I've read NUMEROUS studies on this very subject. To try to exclude it and say that attraction is solely based on primortial instincts is ignorant to the reality of the world we live in.Originally posted by Vincent
Bullsh*t
Media doesn't make us want a certain type of girl. Our instincts as human being does.
petite or skinny chicks. Media just dictates what we want to see. They don't make us into something we see.
Agree with PRMoon on this one.Originally posted by PRMoon
Media has a huge impact on the human psyche including our basis for attraction. I've read NUMEROUS studies on this very subject. To try to exclude it and say that attraction is solely based on primortial instincts is ignorant to the reality of the world we live in.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm currently trying to date a girl who's definately not the "perfect image" of a woman. I'm even kinda scared about how much I like her, but looks are really the secondary feature. She's very intelligent (a near 4.0 student goin to lawschool) and speaks her mind on ALL subjects (not only does she hold her own but she dominates in a lot of feilds). I like her more for who she is rather then what she looks like, and it captivates me more then any otherwise more "attractive" girl would.Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Yeah, and its guys like you that only help the obscene standard of beauty.
And AMEN, Wyldfire
I think they are real...just stuffed into the wrong bra and the photo angle makes them look bigger than they actually are. Look at the other pictures I linked to and they don't look as big.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.