“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Are relationships build?
- Thread starter Gstring
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SW15
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Some of it is cultural programming. Building some sort of extended relationship is a goal of a lot of people in the mating marketplace. Women talking about having relationships isn't weird.
It is less probable that you'll have a relationship if you have first date sex. However, some extended (3+ months) relationships have been formed after first date sex. I have pushed for fast sex over time. There are some in this community that believe in first date sex on all first dates. I don't believe first date sex is ideal sex if your goal is quality sex. It takes a little bit more time in most cases to have the first instance of sex between two people to be higher quality. There are rarer instances where two people will meet, spend 3 hours clothed together, then go have some amazing sex.
Patti Stanger, a high end matchmaker who had her own reality TV show for 5+ years, used to talk about not having sex before the determination of momogamy/exclusivity in relationships as a way of having longer lasting relationships. It's a valid idea. Now, let's look at her bias. Few matchmakers are successful. Most men who go this route end up wasting their money, but most men go to lower end matchmakers. Her clientele was mostly 35+ men who were more beta. Guys who have often been successful in the workplace but not the guys often attracting the most poontang based upon raw animal sexuality.
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Through time and shared experiences, ups and downs etc. I'm not sure how you are confused about it. The same way you build anything...one day at a time, one memory at a time and one experience at a time.
Just agree and amplify and continue onwards. Don't think too much of it.
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They mean that they want to enjoy a free meal before deciding whether to give you anything in return.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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taiyuu_otoko
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If they are talking about building a relationship, then they aren't in a relationship.
If they are talking about WHEN they meet the right guy, they haven't met the right guy.
Which is hamster fantasizing/rationalizing that it's actually under their control.
Like building a relationship with the right guy is a step by step process like building a birdhouse.
Something that's conditional on meeting the "right guy," which is never going to happen.
Kind of like Hollywood limo drivers are going to build their acting career once they meet the right opportunity.
The only relationships these types of ladies will be building is with their vibrators and their cats.
That said... they dont all look to qualify you. Judge them by their behavior. In my case if her behavior changes..... so will the "relationship".... we will be exclusive and build a relationship until she fuks up...
Epi