Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Looks just make it easier. They don’t pre-determine the final outcome.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Are my looks holding me back?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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or how about you tell the guy, Walt.....
1. Get a yearly subscription to GQ magazine
2. Get yourself some leather bracelets
3. Watch reruns of gay eye for the straight man and sort your threads out player cause you know "95% of men look like...the just crawled out of bed OOOOH MY GOD LIKE!!!"
People in glass houses, Walt, people in glass houses...
¡Al carajo payaso!
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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this guys trying his luck right now
Being good looking is overrated for men. I'm generally considered an attractive guy, I'm tall, in good shape and get a lot of attention and compliments from girls. That said, nearly all the girls who rejected me and all my exes who dumped me have ended up with guys of below average looks. And yet, those are the guys they've settled down with for the long term.
Maybe they had more game than me, more confidence or just offered more security than me. One thing I've noticed is that most girls would rather be the hot one in the relationship than be with a guy who gets loads of attention.
While good looks will get more options on dating sites and help you score more sex, it won't necessarily help you with dating or relationships. Some of the hottest girls I know have fallen head over heels for some right ugly knackers.
I'll be honest, I used to resent some of these guys, but then I met them and found them to be funny, genuine, charismatic and comfortable in their own skin. That's the key.
Maybe they had more game than me, more confidence or just offered more security than me. One thing I've noticed is that most girls would rather be the hot one in the relationship than be with a guy who gets loads of attention.
While good looks will get more options on dating sites and help you score more sex, it won't necessarily help you with dating or relationships. Some of the hottest girls I know have fallen head over heels for some right ugly knackers.
I'll be honest, I used to resent some of these guys, but then I met them and found them to be funny, genuine, charismatic and comfortable in their own skin. That's the key.
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Snoopy is def an 8 in women's eyes so not sure what the problem is...
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There is no reason you can't get women, it's all in your head. If I'm right, your problem is that you don't believe people when they tell you that you're good looking. I think the problem is you know all your flaws and you're insecure because you think about them too much.
I struggled with this problem for years and I got over it instantly when I decided to believe people instead of thinking about my insecurities. It was like flipping a switch, from one day to the next the hot female manager at my gym went from seeing thru me to looking at me. And if I'm thinking about insecurities, that switch gets flipped off and I'm invisible again. It really is as simple as changing your attitude.
Stop being jealous. It's unattractive. So what if women giggle over Chris Hemsworth, we all drool over Scarlett Johansson. Being butthurt dries up the pvssy like nothing else.
Confidence does not depend on the approval of others.
I struggled with this problem for years and I got over it instantly when I decided to believe people instead of thinking about my insecurities. It was like flipping a switch, from one day to the next the hot female manager at my gym went from seeing thru me to looking at me. And if I'm thinking about insecurities, that switch gets flipped off and I'm invisible again. It really is as simple as changing your attitude.
Stop being jealous. It's unattractive. So what if women giggle over Chris Hemsworth, we all drool over Scarlett Johansson. Being butthurt dries up the pvssy like nothing else.
Confidence does not depend on the approval of others.