I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
In the last century, I had attended church singles' dances without going to church, LOL. For while, there were just barely enough young gals who showed up just barely often enough to make it a good mack source (it was always the young maiden being an acquaintance-friend of an older crone (or sometimes her daughterSince I prefer a more traditional type woman (as if they exist much these days) I've thought about going to a church, but my conscience would probably bother me (as an agnostic/atheist, I'd be attending for the 'wrong' reasons).
Although I've never been a fan of oppressive environments, I'm not bothered by women that voluntarily allow themselves to be oppressed by church/bible teachings.
I mean no offense to my religious forum members here. Just speaking my thoughts.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just saw younger woman saying asexual, masculine and feminine females like the non feminine way is more common and acceptable.The powers that be have been attacking and isolating white male interests - basically the entirety of the culture developed here by European founders and immigrants - and that includes work ethics, moral values, and religion. Feminism is just one aspect of this. Females, younger females especially, seem to have bought into this anti-traditionalist indoctrination especially hard, so it's no surprise you're not seeing them in churches. Goodbye America, it was nice knowing you.
Wow, that's a five hour video.
The situation is so bleak that these IncelTubers always try to keep the session to a reasonable length, but there's always a caller with another horrific anecdote, so the sessions go on for a long time. I listen to it while I do my housework, take a dump, etc., LOL. I think FaceAndLMS has an 8-hour marathon.Wow, that's a five hour video.
The United States may be more religious than Australia. Among Millennials in the USA (early 1980s to mid 1990s births), religious participation is not all that high. In most churches, the 20s/30s single demographic is absent. In most churches, you'll see older couples (likely empty nesters), older widows, and 30-40s people with children under 18.Young women who go to church regularly are Virtually non existent. (And no mega church's like hillsong are not real church's).
It doesn't help that Australia isn't very religious, we don't even have a bible belt like you Americans do. Young Christian Men here have almost no options when it comes to dating.