"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Are churches now sausage fests?

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I was listening to this video by Incelmatics. It seems to be OVER for ChurchCels.

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mine has more women, but the women are all older than 55.

Young women who go to church regularly are Virtually non existent. (And no mega church's like hillsong are not real church's).

It doesn't help that Australia isn't very religious, we don't even have a bible belt like you Americans do. Young Christian Men here have almost no options when it comes to dating.

When I tried a Christian dating site here, there was about 7 women in total. Either land whales or single mum's over 40.
 
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Since I prefer a more traditional type woman (as if they exist much these days) I've thought about going to a church, but my conscience would probably bother me (as an agnostic/atheist, I'd be attending for the 'wrong' reasons).

Although I've never been a fan of oppressive environments, I'm not bothered by women that voluntarily allow themselves to be oppressed by church/bible teachings.

I mean no offense to my religious forum members here. Just speaking my thoughts.
 

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The powers that be have been attacking and isolating white male interests - basically the entirety of the culture developed here by European founders and immigrants - and that includes work ethics, moral values, and religion. Feminism is just one aspect of this. Females, younger females especially, seem to have bought into this anti-traditionalist indoctrination especially hard, so it's no surprise you're not seeing them in churches. Goodbye America, it was nice knowing you.

Wow, that's a five hour video.
 

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Since I prefer a more traditional type woman (as if they exist much these days) I've thought about going to a church, but my conscience would probably bother me (as an agnostic/atheist, I'd be attending for the 'wrong' reasons).

Although I've never been a fan of oppressive environments, I'm not bothered by women that voluntarily allow themselves to be oppressed by church/bible teachings.

I mean no offense to my religious forum members here. Just speaking my thoughts.
In the last century, I had attended church singles' dances without going to church, LOL. For while, there were just barely enough young gals who showed up just barely often enough to make it a good mack source (it was always the young maiden being an acquaintance-friend of an older crone (or sometimes her daughter :eek:). Since the last century, I had only gone to such an event twice, and to paraphrase FaceAndLMS, it was BRUTAL!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The powers that be have been attacking and isolating white male interests - basically the entirety of the culture developed here by European founders and immigrants - and that includes work ethics, moral values, and religion. Feminism is just one aspect of this. Females, younger females especially, seem to have bought into this anti-traditionalist indoctrination especially hard, so it's no surprise you're not seeing them in churches. Goodbye America, it was nice knowing you.

Wow, that's a five hour video.
Just saw younger woman saying asexual, masculine and feminine females like the non feminine way is more common and acceptable.
 

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Wow, that's a five hour video.
The situation is so bleak that these IncelTubers always try to keep the session to a reasonable length, but there's always a caller with another horrific anecdote, so the sessions go on for a long time. I listen to it while I do my housework, take a dump, etc., LOL. I think FaceAndLMS has an 8-hour marathon. :eek: :eek:
 

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Young women who go to church regularly are Virtually non existent. (And no mega church's like hillsong are not real church's).

It doesn't help that Australia isn't very religious, we don't even have a bible belt like you Americans do. Young Christian Men here have almost no options when it comes to dating.
The United States may be more religious than Australia. Among Millennials in the USA (early 1980s to mid 1990s births), religious participation is not all that high. In most churches, the 20s/30s single demographic is absent. In most churches, you'll see older couples (likely empty nesters), older widows, and 30-40s people with children under 18.

It has been documented that in the United States, fewer people are meeting the person that they are in a relationship with in church. That's likely true in other countries as well.

I wouldn't call church a sausage fest because older people attend church more. There are a fair amount of 60+ widowed females in church.
 
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