"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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approaching girls in the gym

napoleon

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What for instance could I say to a girl I want to meet and have seen her for the first time. What would be the best approach?
I am blocked and only need the first sentence to get the conversation going?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by napoleon
What for instance could I say to a girl I want to meet and have seen her for the first time. What would be the best approach?
I am blocked and only need the first sentence to get the conversation going?
Something related to her workout... But make sure she is open for you approaching (Such as eyecontact or other signs), because being approached at the gym can be very uncomfortable.... Some girls just dont like it at all.
 

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"hello I couldn't help but notice you are here whenever I'm here, please quit stalking me"

her- "huh what??"

"just kidding, im jake, whats your name?"

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"hello, how's youre workout going today?"

comment on her clothes/people around you/etc

approaching is 80% of it, after it, rejected or not, you will feel MUCH better about yourself, TRUST ME
 

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You: Stop being selfish and let me use the machine.
Her: (1) + Oh I am sorry or (2) - fuvk off
You: + Just kidding, my name is ..............

If she's giving you the go do it ...
if not? Not a good situation to get in to
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kineti[C]harm

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If shes lifting you can pretend you are asian and ask "Do you want some flies with that?" Flies is an excersize btw for the unknowing :p
 

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I like what TKMAN said.Any more suggestions. In my opinion the btch shealds should be down because they're so sweaty and so on... I wouldn't approach a randon girl but the one that gives me intense EC
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
If shes lifting you can pretend you are asian and ask "Do you want some flies with that?" Flies is an excersize btw for the unknowing :p
KC...that's a stereotype of asians.
there are plenty of asians around the world that can speak english exceptionally well.

besides that wouldnt work with any chick cause that just sounds too corny as an ice breaker, imo.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
KC...that's a stereotype of asians.
there are plenty of asians around the world that can speak english exceptionally well.

besides that wouldnt work with any chick cause that just sounds too corny as an ice breaker, imo.
Im not sure if its my head or your head I should be banging against a walk...... It was A JOKE... oh god :p :p
 

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Bro, its quite simple....Just go up to her and say "are you almost done with this machine??" and you're all set....its not that hard in the gym, theres so many opening lines you can use....

But be careful, there are some girls that take their workouts very serious and dont want to be bothered...so I would do a little homework and see how she is in the gym before you do it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Say, "Your body seems to be in excellent shape, yet I never so you at this gym - are you a new member?

What is your motivation for working out?

How about being motivated to give me your phone number?
 
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