"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What for instance could I say to a girl I want to meet and have seen her for the first time. What would be the best approach?
I am blocked and only need the first sentence to get the conversation going?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by napoleon
What for instance could I say to a girl I want to meet and have seen her for the first time. What would be the best approach?
I am blocked and only need the first sentence to get the conversation going?
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Something related to her workout... But make sure she is open for you approaching (Such as eyecontact or other signs), because being approached at the gym can be very uncomfortable.... Some girls just dont like it at all.
 
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"hello I couldn't help but notice you are here whenever I'm here, please quit stalking me"

her- "huh what??"

"just kidding, im jake, whats your name?"

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"hello, how's youre workout going today?"

comment on her clothes/people around you/etc

approaching is 80% of it, after it, rejected or not, you will feel MUCH better about yourself, TRUST ME
 
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You: Stop being selfish and let me use the machine.
Her: (1) + Oh I am sorry or (2) - fuvk off
You: + Just kidding, my name is ..............

If she's giving you the go do it ...
if not? Not a good situation to get in to
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If shes lifting you can pretend you are asian and ask "Do you want some flies with that?" Flies is an excersize btw for the unknowing :p
 
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I like what TKMAN said.Any more suggestions. In my opinion the btch shealds should be down because they're so sweaty and so on... I wouldn't approach a randon girl but the one that gives me intense EC
 
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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
If shes lifting you can pretend you are asian and ask "Do you want some flies with that?" Flies is an excersize btw for the unknowing :p
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KC...that's a stereotype of asians.
there are plenty of asians around the world that can speak english exceptionally well.

besides that wouldnt work with any chick cause that just sounds too corny as an ice breaker, imo.
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
KC...that's a stereotype of asians.
there are plenty of asians around the world that can speak english exceptionally well.

besides that wouldnt work with any chick cause that just sounds too corny as an ice breaker, imo.
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Im not sure if its my head or your head I should be banging against a walk...... It was A JOKE... oh god :p :p
 
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Bro, its quite simple....Just go up to her and say "are you almost done with this machine??" and you're all set....its not that hard in the gym, theres so many opening lines you can use....

But be careful, there are some girls that take their workouts very serious and dont want to be bothered...so I would do a little homework and see how she is in the gym before you do it
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Say, "Your body seems to be in excellent shape, yet I never so you at this gym - are you a new member?

What is your motivation for working out?

How about being motivated to give me your phone number?
 
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