"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
approaching girls in the gym
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Kineti[C]harm
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Something related to her workout... But make sure she is open for you approaching (Such as eyecontact or other signs), because being approached at the gym can be very uncomfortable.... Some girls just dont like it at all.
white_hype
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her- "huh what??"
"just kidding, im jake, whats your name?"
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"hello, how's youre workout going today?"
comment on her clothes/people around you/etc
approaching is 80% of it, after it, rejected or not, you will feel MUCH better about yourself, TRUST ME
Her: (1) + Oh I am sorry or (2) - fuvk off
You: + Just kidding, my name is ..............
If she's giving you the go do it ...
if not? Not a good situation to get in to
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kineti[C]harm
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KC...that's a stereotype of asians.Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
If shes lifting you can pretend you are asian and ask "Do you want some flies with that?" Flies is an excersize btw for the unknowing
there are plenty of asians around the world that can speak english exceptionally well.
besides that wouldnt work with any chick cause that just sounds too corny as an ice breaker, imo.
Kineti[C]harm
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Im not sure if its my head or your head I should be banging against a walk...... It was A JOKE... oh god
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But be careful, there are some girls that take their workouts very serious and dont want to be bothered...so I would do a little homework and see how she is in the gym before you do it
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PuertoRican_Lover
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What is your motivation for working out?
How about being motivated to give me your phone number?