"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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approaching girls in the gym

napoleon

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What for instance could I say to a girl I want to meet and have seen her for the first time. What would be the best approach?
I am blocked and only need the first sentence to get the conversation going?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by napoleon
What for instance could I say to a girl I want to meet and have seen her for the first time. What would be the best approach?
I am blocked and only need the first sentence to get the conversation going?
Something related to her workout... But make sure she is open for you approaching (Such as eyecontact or other signs), because being approached at the gym can be very uncomfortable.... Some girls just dont like it at all.
 

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"hello I couldn't help but notice you are here whenever I'm here, please quit stalking me"

her- "huh what??"

"just kidding, im jake, whats your name?"

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"hello, how's youre workout going today?"

comment on her clothes/people around you/etc

approaching is 80% of it, after it, rejected or not, you will feel MUCH better about yourself, TRUST ME
 

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You: Stop being selfish and let me use the machine.
Her: (1) + Oh I am sorry or (2) - fuvk off
You: + Just kidding, my name is ..............

If she's giving you the go do it ...
if not? Not a good situation to get in to
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kineti[C]harm

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If shes lifting you can pretend you are asian and ask "Do you want some flies with that?" Flies is an excersize btw for the unknowing :p
 

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I like what TKMAN said.Any more suggestions. In my opinion the btch shealds should be down because they're so sweaty and so on... I wouldn't approach a randon girl but the one that gives me intense EC
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
If shes lifting you can pretend you are asian and ask "Do you want some flies with that?" Flies is an excersize btw for the unknowing :p
KC...that's a stereotype of asians.
there are plenty of asians around the world that can speak english exceptionally well.

besides that wouldnt work with any chick cause that just sounds too corny as an ice breaker, imo.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
KC...that's a stereotype of asians.
there are plenty of asians around the world that can speak english exceptionally well.

besides that wouldnt work with any chick cause that just sounds too corny as an ice breaker, imo.
Im not sure if its my head or your head I should be banging against a walk...... It was A JOKE... oh god :p :p
 

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Bro, its quite simple....Just go up to her and say "are you almost done with this machine??" and you're all set....its not that hard in the gym, theres so many opening lines you can use....

But be careful, there are some girls that take their workouts very serious and dont want to be bothered...so I would do a little homework and see how she is in the gym before you do it
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Say, "Your body seems to be in excellent shape, yet I never so you at this gym - are you a new member?

What is your motivation for working out?

How about being motivated to give me your phone number?
 
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