"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
approaching girls in the gym
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kineti[C]harm
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Something related to her workout... But make sure she is open for you approaching (Such as eyecontact or other signs), because being approached at the gym can be very uncomfortable.... Some girls just dont like it at all.
white_hype
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her- "huh what??"
"just kidding, im jake, whats your name?"
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"hello, how's youre workout going today?"
comment on her clothes/people around you/etc
approaching is 80% of it, after it, rejected or not, you will feel MUCH better about yourself, TRUST ME
Her: (1) + Oh I am sorry or (2) - fuvk off
You: + Just kidding, my name is ..............
If she's giving you the go do it ...
if not? Not a good situation to get in to
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kineti[C]harm
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KC...that's a stereotype of asians.Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
If shes lifting you can pretend you are asian and ask "Do you want some flies with that?" Flies is an excersize btw for the unknowing
there are plenty of asians around the world that can speak english exceptionally well.
besides that wouldnt work with any chick cause that just sounds too corny as an ice breaker, imo.
Kineti[C]harm
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Im not sure if its my head or your head I should be banging against a walk...... It was A JOKE... oh god
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But be careful, there are some girls that take their workouts very serious and dont want to be bothered...so I would do a little homework and see how she is in the gym before you do it
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PuertoRican_Lover
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What is your motivation for working out?
How about being motivated to give me your phone number?