"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Approach Anxiety Doing Direct
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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1. are the people around listening to your conversation? if so, is it everyone? or just one person? do they notice what's happening? what do they see? what do they hear?
for example- i find that sometimes people will notice. and some people won't notice. the people that notice will see me go up to a girl and talk to her. if they're listening, they'll also hear what i'm saying.
2. what are these people thinking? (your guess)
example- i think that some people would be amused by whats happening and take an active interest. this is what i do when i see a guy trying to pick up a girl. i want to critique the guy and see if i can learn anything. or learn from his mistakes.
i also think that some people wouldn't really be that interested.
i think that some people might think i'm a creep.
i think that some people might be amused as if watching a television comedy. they might be chuckling inside.
i think that some people might cheer me on.
3. what is your reaction to them thinking this? (not just anxiety, but also the thoughts that are going on)
example- i don't want to be critiqued by someone else when i'm doing this.
or
i wish people would **** off and mind their own business.
etc
really psychoanalyze whats going on here. and maybe you'll have a clue for how to overcome this anxiety.
many people also have difficulty approaching when there are other people around. you're not alone! i do as well.
Krueg
Master Don Juan
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Girls who GIVE OUT their number WITHOUT you asking..mean nothing.skinnyguy said:
Women YOU ASK for the number and give you their number are INTERESTED.
If their not interested or the number is "Fake" big fvcking deal, Move On!
Learn things the hard way or PROTECT YOUR HEART!
Side Note: What Rugby11 said earlier.. No Risk, No Reward!