"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Apocolipto's path to becoming a ladies man =P

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dANZY, U must come back to me about meeting up, I really want to sarge in JHB.
 
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Hi guys, today was a great gym session, I did squats(perfect form) 120KG
leg presses:220KG
barbell rows:70KG
lat pulldown machine:67.5KG
bench press:90KGx5 reps(YAY!)

BTW guys, what do you do when someone threatens you on fb? I said to a girl we should meet up, and the guy started commenting aggresively and saying he'll send ppl to get me..lol.

Apoco
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you understand afrikaans?Then I'll link u to the page.Also, I want my FB page reviewed? Anyone up for it?
 
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apocolipto said:
Do you understand afrikaans?Then I'll link u to the page.Also, I want my FB page reviewed? Anyone up for it?
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Ask DanZy or Nino. I can do the last part if its in english, which it should be.
 
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Norwegian check PM for my profile.

Anyway I'm not getting anywhere with any chicks as I'm not seeing them.Damn exams!
Just gonna gym and learn, and this vacation I'm of to Johannesburg! Party Party!
 
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apocolipto said:
BTW guys, what do you do when someone threatens you on fb? I said to a girl we should meet up, and the guy started commenting aggresively and saying he'll send ppl to get me..lol.

Apoco
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Wow... haha. Don't pay any attention to it whatsoever but as a tip I wouldn't do that in wall posts, would sooner use FBC or at least a PM.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FBC? And thanks for tip,,but I commented that on one of her posts, not wall post.

Lesson learned! :)
 
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FBC? And thanks for tip,,but I commented that on one of her posts, not wall post.

Lesson learned! :)
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Facebook chat, as in the instant messaging stuff.
 
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DanZy said:
My Afrikaans is limited to swearing so I can't really help you. I'm a proper southie, though I pull a lot of Afrikaans girls
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Hahahaha, makes two of us! Less afrikaans chicks on my part though.
 
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Guys, I have a junior totally inlove with me, who won't stop texting me.Same with another HB 6/7. Damn =/

Luckily I arranged a "walk around the block" date with a HB8 tomorrow, and will defnitley put all my skills into use.Gonna try for the kiss close.

And guys,,how the hell do I stop smoking?I have so much trouble and stress that I've been smoking for 3 years, And once I stop, and something happens, I NEED to smoke..=( Sucks balls!

Apoco
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just make it easy for yourself to stop. Also, just make a decision about it. Once you've decided, that's how it is.
 
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I know, it's just cravings are harsh. I'm busy with THC withdrawal also, as I've been smoking weed for 3 years daily, and decided to stop.I got so angry yesterday(withdrawal symptom I get) that I hit a hole in my cupboard. I get very frustrated and angry all the time,it's starting to scare me.
 
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Hey guys, well nothing new social wise.I can't go out, as it's exams.

But today I took a walk with a HB8(met her today),and couldn't really kino much,as we were walking.I did "shake" her hand(more like held it with eye contact)when I met up,and hugged her as I greeted her when I went.Didn't want to k-close as I think it would have been weird with the little kino that was involved.She gave clear IOI's.Lots of eye contact,smiling and laughing and playing with hair.
Anyway, we have a day 2 tomorrow,again a walk.But this time I'm gonna let us sit down somewhere,convo and kino and k-close.
I actualy like this chick,and would consider a LTR with her.(Depending on where our relationship goes)

Enjoy the week DJ's.
Apoco
 
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Well guys, no gaming for me.I'm sick with a cold and I'd think that would be a great turn off to a girl.**** sucks.

Hopefully I recover soon!
 
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Well guys, no gaming for me.I'm sick with a cold and I'd think that would be a great turn off to a girl.**** sucks.

Hopefully I recover soon!
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Same. However, nothing stops me yo!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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