DanZy
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Bench should just be a higher weight, never greater than squats
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Apocolipto's path to becoming a ladies man =P
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
apocolipto
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dANZY, U must come back to me about meeting up, I really want to sarge in JHB.
DanZy
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Sorry mate, I'm nowhere near lanseria or Kempton. Joburg is huge
apocolipto
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Alright cool, guys today I begin with exams, wish me luck lol
apocolipto
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Hi guys, today was a great gym session, I did squats(perfect form) 120KG
leg presses:220KG
barbell rows:70KG
lat pulldown machine:67.5KG
bench press:90KGx5 reps(YAY!)
BTW guys, what do you do when someone threatens you on fb? I said to a girl we should meet up, and the guy started commenting aggresively and saying he'll send ppl to get me..lol.
Apoco
leg presses:220KG
barbell rows:70KG
lat pulldown machine:67.5KG
bench press:90KGx5 reps(YAY!)
BTW guys, what do you do when someone threatens you on fb? I said to a girl we should meet up, and the guy started commenting aggresively and saying he'll send ppl to get me..lol.
Apoco
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
NorwegianDJ
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Nice bench. More detail on the interaction?
apocolipto
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Do you understand afrikaans?Then I'll link u to the page.Also, I want my FB page reviewed? Anyone up for it?
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Ask DanZy or Nino. I can do the last part if its in english, which it should be.apocolipto said:
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Norwegian check PM for my profile.
Anyway I'm not getting anywhere with any chicks as I'm not seeing them.Damn exams!
Just gonna gym and learn, and this vacation I'm of to Johannesburg! Party Party!
Anyway I'm not getting anywhere with any chicks as I'm not seeing them.Damn exams!
Just gonna gym and learn, and this vacation I'm of to Johannesburg! Party Party!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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FBC? And thanks for tip,,but I commented that on one of her posts, not wall post.
Lesson learned!
Lesson learned!
DanZy
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My Afrikaans is limited to swearing so I can't really help you. I'm a proper southie, though I pull a lot of Afrikaans girls
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Hahahaha, makes two of us! Less afrikaans chicks on my part though.DanZy said:
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Guys, I have a junior totally inlove with me, who won't stop texting me.Same with another HB 6/7. Damn =/
Luckily I arranged a "walk around the block" date with a HB8 tomorrow, and will defnitley put all my skills into use.Gonna try for the kiss close.
And guys,,how the hell do I stop smoking?I have so much trouble and stress that I've been smoking for 3 years, And once I stop, and something happens, I NEED to smoke..=( Sucks balls!
Apoco
Luckily I arranged a "walk around the block" date with a HB8 tomorrow, and will defnitley put all my skills into use.Gonna try for the kiss close.
And guys,,how the hell do I stop smoking?I have so much trouble and stress that I've been smoking for 3 years, And once I stop, and something happens, I NEED to smoke..=( Sucks balls!
Apoco
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NorwegianDJ
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Just make it easy for yourself to stop. Also, just make a decision about it. Once you've decided, that's how it is.
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I know, it's just cravings are harsh. I'm busy with THC withdrawal also, as I've been smoking weed for 3 years daily, and decided to stop.I got so angry yesterday(withdrawal symptom I get) that I hit a hole in my cupboard. I get very frustrated and angry all the time,it's starting to scare me.
apocolipto
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Hey guys, well nothing new social wise.I can't go out, as it's exams.
But today I took a walk with a HB8(met her today),and couldn't really kino much,as we were walking.I did "shake" her hand(more like held it with eye contact)when I met up,and hugged her as I greeted her when I went.Didn't want to k-close as I think it would have been weird with the little kino that was involved.She gave clear IOI's.Lots of eye contact,smiling and laughing and playing with hair.
Anyway, we have a day 2 tomorrow,again a walk.But this time I'm gonna let us sit down somewhere,convo and kino and k-close.
I actualy like this chick,and would consider a LTR with her.(Depending on where our relationship goes)
Enjoy the week DJ's.
Apoco
But today I took a walk with a HB8(met her today),and couldn't really kino much,as we were walking.I did "shake" her hand(more like held it with eye contact)when I met up,and hugged her as I greeted her when I went.Didn't want to k-close as I think it would have been weird with the little kino that was involved.She gave clear IOI's.Lots of eye contact,smiling and laughing and playing with hair.
Anyway, we have a day 2 tomorrow,again a walk.But this time I'm gonna let us sit down somewhere,convo and kino and k-close.
I actualy like this chick,and would consider a LTR with her.(Depending on where our relationship goes)
Enjoy the week DJ's.
Apoco
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Well guys, no gaming for me.I'm sick with a cold and I'd think that would be a great turn off to a girl.**** sucks.
Hopefully I recover soon!
Hopefully I recover soon!
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Same. However, nothing stops me yo!apocolipto said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.