Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well I am glad that I have chinese blood. Thanks for the input.I’ve been to Hong Kong twice. You are entering a caste system. The upper caste is off limits to you unless you are Chinese. You are considered “dirty” genes.
Middle and lower you may have access to. Or just go to Kowloon and into the casinos. There are all nationalities there.
Middle class receptionists. Tellers. Retail girls. Etc. They are no different really. Just don’t try to do too much public display of affection. It’s frowned upon. She will withdrawal. Holding hands is the best kinoWell I am glad that I have chinese blood. Thanks for the input.
What do you think about the women there? I am currently chatting one right now.
Do you think they would consider to have a long term relationship with me as an asian foreigner?Middle class receptionists. Tellers. Retail girls. Etc. They are no different really. Just don’t try to do too much public display of affection. It’s frowned upon. She will withdrawal. Holding hands is the best kino
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes I do. Are you going to live there as well?Do you think they would consider to have a long term relationship with me as an asian foreigner?
I might consider that too. Since I may always be doing business in Hong Kong.Yes I do. Are you going to live there as well?
Welcome.I might consider that too. Since I may always be doing business in Hong Kong.
I hope this will turn out well. I really admire women in Hong Kong.
Thank you for taking time to respond my friend![]()