You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well I am glad that I have chinese blood. Thanks for the input.I’ve been to Hong Kong twice. You are entering a caste system. The upper caste is off limits to you unless you are Chinese. You are considered “dirty” genes.
Middle and lower you may have access to. Or just go to Kowloon and into the casinos. There are all nationalities there.
Middle class receptionists. Tellers. Retail girls. Etc. They are no different really. Just don’t try to do too much public display of affection. It’s frowned upon. She will withdrawal. Holding hands is the best kinoWell I am glad that I have chinese blood. Thanks for the input.
What do you think about the women there? I am currently chatting one right now.
Do you think they would consider to have a long term relationship with me as an asian foreigner?Middle class receptionists. Tellers. Retail girls. Etc. They are no different really. Just don’t try to do too much public display of affection. It’s frowned upon. She will withdrawal. Holding hands is the best kino
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes I do. Are you going to live there as well?Do you think they would consider to have a long term relationship with me as an asian foreigner?
I might consider that too. Since I may always be doing business in Hong Kong.Yes I do. Are you going to live there as well?
Welcome.I might consider that too. Since I may always be doing business in Hong Kong.
I hope this will turn out well. I really admire women in Hong Kong.
Thank you for taking time to respond my friend![]()