Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well I am glad that I have chinese blood. Thanks for the input.I’ve been to Hong Kong twice. You are entering a caste system. The upper caste is off limits to you unless you are Chinese. You are considered “dirty” genes.
Middle and lower you may have access to. Or just go to Kowloon and into the casinos. There are all nationalities there.
Middle class receptionists. Tellers. Retail girls. Etc. They are no different really. Just don’t try to do too much public display of affection. It’s frowned upon. She will withdrawal. Holding hands is the best kinoWell I am glad that I have chinese blood. Thanks for the input.
What do you think about the women there? I am currently chatting one right now.
Do you think they would consider to have a long term relationship with me as an asian foreigner?Middle class receptionists. Tellers. Retail girls. Etc. They are no different really. Just don’t try to do too much public display of affection. It’s frowned upon. She will withdrawal. Holding hands is the best kino
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes I do. Are you going to live there as well?Do you think they would consider to have a long term relationship with me as an asian foreigner?
I might consider that too. Since I may always be doing business in Hong Kong.Yes I do. Are you going to live there as well?
Welcome.I might consider that too. Since I may always be doing business in Hong Kong.
I hope this will turn out well. I really admire women in Hong Kong.
Thank you for taking time to respond my friend![]()