"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone had any luck with winking at girls?

joshlavarn2009

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I tried this with a couple girls and got good results, like I tried it on a neighbor girl during a conversation, and it got her flustered in a good way. Also on a cute girl at Culvers, and a bank teller too. Seemed to break the ice and get their pussies wet at the same time.

Anyone tried winking during eye contact? Were your results good? Just thought it might be another weapon for the dj.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have given up winking for 20 days now. I feel fitter and can concentrate much better. Although I find it hard to resist, and not sure if I have the will power to go on any further and might have to reset..... :crackup:
 

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Depends on your personality. Some people can make even a wink creepy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DarkShade

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I wink all the time to girls who come into my work, almost always it's after I say something witty/****y and I have their full attention. Today I did it to a girl who had a boyfriend (he wasn't in earshot) and she got this huge smile on her face. So far I haven't gotten any good 'hits' from it but it's a good confidence/motivation booster.
 

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Winking works best when done naturally, not forced. Be REAL laid back when winking to women, and don't just stand there.

You have to be on the move. Wink, and turn away.
 

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lol i can only wink with my right eyeso i can only do it to girls to my right.... aww man

otherwise id be blinking at them...
 

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yeah true, so i can always just turn my head to the left if they are on my left and wink at them. no biggie ;)
 

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MillenniumMike said:
Personally I feel that smiles are more effective than winks, it is universal in its uses.
Agree, smiling is more effective for me anyways.

With winking,Ive gotten some rolleyes and girls sighing doing that.:crackup: I think it comes off as corny and arrogant. But hey if it works for you then do it. Seems to be working for the OP.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Totally cheesy UNLESS you've already established rapport with her.

If it's somebody you've already been "working", and you both happen to accidentally look at each other at the same time, a subtle wink will excite her beyond belief.

Practice your wink first in a mirror, though. It needs to be subtle and non-chalant. That means DON"T contort your face. Some people scrunch up the whole side of their face while winking, and boy does that ever look pathetic.

Just use the muscles of the eyelid with either zero or an ever-so-slight lifting of the cheek and it will come off as cool. Finish it off with a slight and sly close-mouthed grin, and it works magic.

For someone I just met, though, I think a wink is out of place. A smile works better.
 

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I had an older woman yesterday wink at me upon first meeting me and telling me, "You're funny." She said I reminded her of Johnny Depp as Captain Jack, I guess, because I was directionless, and couldn't make up my mind thus appearing drunk.
 

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Of course, im irish ;)
 
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