Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Anyone had any luck with winking at girls?

joshlavarn2009

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I tried this with a couple girls and got good results, like I tried it on a neighbor girl during a conversation, and it got her flustered in a good way. Also on a cute girl at Culvers, and a bank teller too. Seemed to break the ice and get their pussies wet at the same time.

Anyone tried winking during eye contact? Were your results good? Just thought it might be another weapon for the dj.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Night Owl

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I have given up winking for 20 days now. I feel fitter and can concentrate much better. Although I find it hard to resist, and not sure if I have the will power to go on any further and might have to reset..... :crackup:
 

Alle_Gory

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Depends on your personality. Some people can make even a wink creepy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DarkShade

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I wink all the time to girls who come into my work, almost always it's after I say something witty/****y and I have their full attention. Today I did it to a girl who had a boyfriend (he wasn't in earshot) and she got this huge smile on her face. So far I haven't gotten any good 'hits' from it but it's a good confidence/motivation booster.
 

Allurre

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Winking works best when done naturally, not forced. Be REAL laid back when winking to women, and don't just stand there.

You have to be on the move. Wink, and turn away.
 

TheEnergizer

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lol i can only wink with my right eyeso i can only do it to girls to my right.... aww man

otherwise id be blinking at them...
 

TheEnergizer

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yeah true, so i can always just turn my head to the left if they are on my left and wink at them. no biggie ;)
 

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MillenniumMike said:
Personally I feel that smiles are more effective than winks, it is universal in its uses.
Agree, smiling is more effective for me anyways.

With winking,Ive gotten some rolleyes and girls sighing doing that.:crackup: I think it comes off as corny and arrogant. But hey if it works for you then do it. Seems to be working for the OP.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Atom Smasher

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Totally cheesy UNLESS you've already established rapport with her.

If it's somebody you've already been "working", and you both happen to accidentally look at each other at the same time, a subtle wink will excite her beyond belief.

Practice your wink first in a mirror, though. It needs to be subtle and non-chalant. That means DON"T contort your face. Some people scrunch up the whole side of their face while winking, and boy does that ever look pathetic.

Just use the muscles of the eyelid with either zero or an ever-so-slight lifting of the cheek and it will come off as cool. Finish it off with a slight and sly close-mouthed grin, and it works magic.

For someone I just met, though, I think a wink is out of place. A smile works better.
 

Poonani Maker

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I had an older woman yesterday wink at me upon first meeting me and telling me, "You're funny." She said I reminded her of Johnny Depp as Captain Jack, I guess, because I was directionless, and couldn't make up my mind thus appearing drunk.
 

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Of course, im irish ;)
 
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