MountainSlide
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My question is, what is a good strategy for getting women into bed with you, without drinking with them first? I am referring in particular to the first time.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Anyone good at getting a woman in the sack without alcohol?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MountainSlide
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I never said drunk, and I have never had any difficulty getting women that I have already had sex with to go at it sober. But I have found that it seems almost mandatory among women before having first time sex. In writing this though I may have found my own answer. The reason it seems mandatory is because they feel uncomfortable/nervous/insecure/etc, so I guess a person would find other ways to lighten the mood.El Payaso said:
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
If I can do it, anyone can. Yes it is possible; you just need to work on yourself. Payaso had a good suggestion, just talk to them.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
englishman
Master Don Juan
BetterCallSaul said:
I think thats a bit obvious isn't it. I mean how you going to get em into bed if you don't! talk to em?????
Maybe just mime it all... you know start making pictures with your hands and stuff.... I read in a pick up book that thats how you do it.