MountainSlide
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My question is, what is a good strategy for getting women into bed with you, without drinking with them first? I am referring in particular to the first time.
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Anyone good at getting a woman in the sack without alcohol?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
MountainSlide
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I never said drunk, and I have never had any difficulty getting women that I have already had sex with to go at it sober. But I have found that it seems almost mandatory among women before having first time sex. In writing this though I may have found my own answer. The reason it seems mandatory is because they feel uncomfortable/nervous/insecure/etc, so I guess a person would find other ways to lighten the mood.El Payaso said:
BetterCallSaul
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If I can do it, anyone can. Yes it is possible; you just need to work on yourself. Payaso had a good suggestion, just talk to them.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
englishman
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BetterCallSaul said:
I think thats a bit obvious isn't it. I mean how you going to get em into bed if you don't! talk to em?????
Maybe just mime it all... you know start making pictures with your hands and stuff.... I read in a pick up book that thats how you do it.