MountainSlide
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My question is, what is a good strategy for getting women into bed with you, without drinking with them first? I am referring in particular to the first time.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Anyone good at getting a woman in the sack without alcohol?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MountainSlide
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I never said drunk, and I have never had any difficulty getting women that I have already had sex with to go at it sober. But I have found that it seems almost mandatory among women before having first time sex. In writing this though I may have found my own answer. The reason it seems mandatory is because they feel uncomfortable/nervous/insecure/etc, so I guess a person would find other ways to lighten the mood.El Payaso said:
BetterCallSaul
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If I can do it, anyone can. Yes it is possible; you just need to work on yourself. Payaso had a good suggestion, just talk to them.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
englishman
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BetterCallSaul said:
I think thats a bit obvious isn't it. I mean how you going to get em into bed if you don't! talk to em?????
Maybe just mime it all... you know start making pictures with your hands and stuff.... I read in a pick up book that thats how you do it.