MountainSlide
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My question is, what is a good strategy for getting women into bed with you, without drinking with them first? I am referring in particular to the first time.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Anyone good at getting a woman in the sack without alcohol?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MountainSlide
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I never said drunk, and I have never had any difficulty getting women that I have already had sex with to go at it sober. But I have found that it seems almost mandatory among women before having first time sex. In writing this though I may have found my own answer. The reason it seems mandatory is because they feel uncomfortable/nervous/insecure/etc, so I guess a person would find other ways to lighten the mood.El Payaso said:
BetterCallSaul
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If I can do it, anyone can. Yes it is possible; you just need to work on yourself. Payaso had a good suggestion, just talk to them.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
englishman
Master Don Juan
BetterCallSaul said:
I think thats a bit obvious isn't it. I mean how you going to get em into bed if you don't! talk to em?????
Maybe just mime it all... you know start making pictures with your hands and stuff.... I read in a pick up book that thats how you do it.