MountainSlide
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My question is, what is a good strategy for getting women into bed with you, without drinking with them first? I am referring in particular to the first time.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Anyone good at getting a woman in the sack without alcohol?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MountainSlide
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I never said drunk, and I have never had any difficulty getting women that I have already had sex with to go at it sober. But I have found that it seems almost mandatory among women before having first time sex. In writing this though I may have found my own answer. The reason it seems mandatory is because they feel uncomfortable/nervous/insecure/etc, so I guess a person would find other ways to lighten the mood.El Payaso said:
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
If I can do it, anyone can. Yes it is possible; you just need to work on yourself. Payaso had a good suggestion, just talk to them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
englishman
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BetterCallSaul said:
I think thats a bit obvious isn't it. I mean how you going to get em into bed if you don't! talk to em?????
Maybe just mime it all... you know start making pictures with your hands and stuff.... I read in a pick up book that thats how you do it.