Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
:crackup: She must have thought you were on drugs!Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
My point exactly Five To One. Women do not want to hear some crazy drunk talking to them over the phone acting like an idiot. Total AFC. That is so insecure behavior.Five To One said:If I know im going to get smashed I usually hide my phone away so I cant find it later and call people.
Drunk dialing girls you are gaming or you like is very stupid. There is little chance you will say anything intelligent to her as she will usually be sober. I laugh at the guys who think the girl will be impressed that he is drunk.
Thats atleast how I see it because whenever I get a drunk dial from a girl, she usually says something very embarrassing and stupid. One time I was with a bunch of my guy friends and I put the girl on speaker so everyone could laugh at her. She was saying the dumbest things to me and was completely embarrassed the next morning.
Im sure many girls see it the same way.
And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sure, if you are an insecure **** and want the ugly *****s.San Jose California said:Getting drunk helps you get women. Stfu. to the guy 2 above me
I NEVER call my drunk connections while sober. That would go against the friends with benefits principles. If I called them while sober that would almost equate to dating, and I can't have that. To be honest though, I don't call anyone while I'm sober. I like to operate alone if I'm out hunting and my desperation level is at a steady 0% so If I'm not wasted, I'm likely not looking for any anyway.Five To One said:And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
oh snap! :crackup: I am curious to what she said too.Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.