She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup: She must have thought you were on drugs!Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
My point exactly Five To One. Women do not want to hear some crazy drunk talking to them over the phone acting like an idiot. Total AFC. That is so insecure behavior.Five To One said:If I know im going to get smashed I usually hide my phone away so I cant find it later and call people.
Drunk dialing girls you are gaming or you like is very stupid. There is little chance you will say anything intelligent to her as she will usually be sober. I laugh at the guys who think the girl will be impressed that he is drunk.
Thats atleast how I see it because whenever I get a drunk dial from a girl, she usually says something very embarrassing and stupid. One time I was with a bunch of my guy friends and I put the girl on speaker so everyone could laugh at her. She was saying the dumbest things to me and was completely embarrassed the next morning.
Im sure many girls see it the same way.
And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sure, if you are an insecure **** and want the ugly *****s.San Jose California said:Getting drunk helps you get women. Stfu. to the guy 2 above me
I NEVER call my drunk connections while sober. That would go against the friends with benefits principles. If I called them while sober that would almost equate to dating, and I can't have that. To be honest though, I don't call anyone while I'm sober. I like to operate alone if I'm out hunting and my desperation level is at a steady 0% so If I'm not wasted, I'm likely not looking for any anyway.Five To One said:And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
oh snap! :crackup: I am curious to what she said too.Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.