She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:crackup: She must have thought you were on drugs!Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
My point exactly Five To One. Women do not want to hear some crazy drunk talking to them over the phone acting like an idiot. Total AFC. That is so insecure behavior.Five To One said:If I know im going to get smashed I usually hide my phone away so I cant find it later and call people.
Drunk dialing girls you are gaming or you like is very stupid. There is little chance you will say anything intelligent to her as she will usually be sober. I laugh at the guys who think the girl will be impressed that he is drunk.
Thats atleast how I see it because whenever I get a drunk dial from a girl, she usually says something very embarrassing and stupid. One time I was with a bunch of my guy friends and I put the girl on speaker so everyone could laugh at her. She was saying the dumbest things to me and was completely embarrassed the next morning.
Im sure many girls see it the same way.
And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sure, if you are an insecure **** and want the ugly *****s.San Jose California said:Getting drunk helps you get women. Stfu. to the guy 2 above me
I NEVER call my drunk connections while sober. That would go against the friends with benefits principles. If I called them while sober that would almost equate to dating, and I can't have that. To be honest though, I don't call anyone while I'm sober. I like to operate alone if I'm out hunting and my desperation level is at a steady 0% so If I'm not wasted, I'm likely not looking for any anyway.Five To One said:And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
oh snap! :crackup: I am curious to what she said too.Taste said:I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...
I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.