"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone ever "drunk dial" ?

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Just curious about any experiences any DJ's might have had where u got really drunk and phoned, texted, or emailed an HB without realizing what u were doing and possibly not even remembering the next day.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hmmm....i have, but at least not with the HB that I had oneitis for. THANK GOD.

Ive only done it to chicks that I considered friends. There was a time I was about to send out some drunk ass AFC text to a girl I got FZ'd from but I still had enough control to at least save the text to my drafts instead of sending it to her....(sigh of relief).
 

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Why would you want to do a stupid thing like that in the first place? Your on your way to NO WOMEN.
 

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I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...

I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
 

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I drunk dial and drunk txt all the time! More often then not I end up with a girl in my bed because i do it the right way.

Don't drunk dial a girl you broke up with on poor terms with. More often then not that will result in fighting and who needs that noise? Bad for your health to say the least. No, instead you should drunk dial girls you meet dated and grew apart from or girls who are your loose friends with benefits, again who you likely don't talk to that much. If you cycle through the list of those (assuming your list is long enough to cycle) then you usually end up with a girl in your bed by the end of the night. I have done zero clubbing in the last 4 weeks and had sex almost every weekend. True I'll be going out before the end of the month because it's almost winter club season again and the money is good but, it won't be for the reason of hooking up.

Bottom line, if you get out there and play the field for some years, things get so easy that you can stay home and do things like drunk dial and still make out okay. :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A few years ago back in my very AFC days. 3am in the morning I phone a girl (she didn't even know I had her number). I actually dialled the wrong number first and some pissed of guy answered. Anyway I phone the girl, she answers and I didn't know what to say. I said her name and she asked who was this and all I can remember doing was hanging up.

Next day I get a phone call from another number. There was a woman on the phone and she said she dialled the wrong number by mistake. I later realise it was her mother checking out who I was. Her mother knew me to talk to and I still hope they didn't find out it was me! :whistle: Never again did I drunk dial!


Taste said:
I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...

I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
:crackup: She must have thought you were on drugs!
 

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If I know im going to get smashed I usually hide my phone away so I cant find it later and call people.

Drunk dialing girls you are gaming or you like is very stupid. There is little chance you will say anything intelligent to her as she will usually be sober. I laugh at the guys who think the girl will be impressed that he is drunk.

Thats atleast how I see it because whenever I get a drunk dial from a girl, she usually says something very embarrassing and stupid. One time I was with a bunch of my guy friends and I put the girl on speaker so everyone could laugh at her. She was saying the dumbest things to me and was completely embarrassed the next morning.

Im sure many girls see it the same way.



And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
 

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Taste said:
I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...

I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.

lol @ that classic!!!

what she say?
 

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Five To One said:
If I know im going to get smashed I usually hide my phone away so I cant find it later and call people.

Drunk dialing girls you are gaming or you like is very stupid. There is little chance you will say anything intelligent to her as she will usually be sober. I laugh at the guys who think the girl will be impressed that he is drunk.

Thats atleast how I see it because whenever I get a drunk dial from a girl, she usually says something very embarrassing and stupid. One time I was with a bunch of my guy friends and I put the girl on speaker so everyone could laugh at her. She was saying the dumbest things to me and was completely embarrassed the next morning.

Im sure many girls see it the same way.



And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
My point exactly Five To One. Women do not want to hear some crazy drunk talking to them over the phone acting like an idiot. Total AFC. That is so insecure behavior.
 

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Drunk and Dial means that you either call or send a message pouring you guts out to either your Ex, Oneitis or any other female you're interested in.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting drunk helps you get women. Stfu. to the guy 2 above me
Sure, if you are an insecure **** and want the ugly *****s.
 

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Five To One said:
And to PRMoon, have you ever tryed calling those girls while sober? or are the girls you call always drunk too.
I do the same thing you do, only sober and I get good results too. And I find sex more enjoyable when I can remember it clearly.
I NEVER call my drunk connections while sober. That would go against the friends with benefits principles. If I called them while sober that would almost equate to dating, and I can't have that. To be honest though, I don't call anyone while I'm sober. I like to operate alone if I'm out hunting and my desperation level is at a steady 0% so If I'm not wasted, I'm likely not looking for any anyway.
 

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Taste said:
I did this once. Way back in 2004 i was sending an email to David Deangelo. I was frustrated because of this really hot girl who I wanted but she "Lets just be friended" me. And i wrote the whole thing about her "this girl is just amazing etc" And our situation and i was really drunk. And well...

I sent the email to the girl by accident. She read it lol. That was an hard one to explain.
oh snap! :crackup: I am curious to what she said too.
 

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I went out Friday night to sarge even took a wing, but wound up surrounded by fatties and a few cougars, being in a small town at the time and pretty late there was only one place open.

I had some drinks and enjoyed the music and pulled out the phone and started texting girls I hadn't talked to in awhile or kinda grown apart from.

One invited me to come stay with her and party @ her college.

I always delete ex girlfriends numbers unless we are on good terms and still occasionally hook up or go out.
 
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