Another weird thing about chicks is sometimes they will break up with you and keep wanting to fvck you. I normally turn it down too corrosive to self respect. I can understand 1 sympathy or beak up fvck just from vag tingling from the drama. But to keep accepting your penis while rejecting you WTF. Maybe their monkey branch guy walked.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Anyone ever change her mind after she blew you off?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
IKO69
Master Don Juan
Well, you have to remember these aren't rando women you just met that you don't really have a connection with. There was investment even if it didn't work out or whatever - doesn't matter how bad things part of them still cares even if they tell you that you are the "worst guy on earth". I have found that the juice is almost never worth the squeeze - I have been on both ends: both the person dumped and the person who decided to dump. It really did not take me to long to realize why I had dumped the person previously if I had decided to give them another chance. At first when I would get dumped I would go through a period of disappointment and longing to have the person back - there were times it did happen and I honestly realized she wasn't as great as I thought. In some cases they were harsh towards me; I was caught by surprise (*at getting dumped*) and the dissolution of the relationship meant talking bad about me, having people that I thought were friends turning their back & ignoring me (mostly her friends that I met through her), all that kind of ****.
What I am basically saying is whenever things don't work out it it is almost never worthwhile to revisit - too much trust is usually lost in the process. It's best to just take whatever good there is from it, see it as the next rung on the ladder you are climbing (because there is always is something to learn, even if you fail) and let go and move on.
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Simply no. Like in sales I close. It's better to source more. Work volume.