Another weird thing about chicks is sometimes they will break up with you and keep wanting to fvck you. I normally turn it down too corrosive to self respect. I can understand 1 sympathy or beak up fvck just from vag tingling from the drama. But to keep accepting your penis while rejecting you WTF. Maybe their monkey branch guy walked.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Anyone ever change her mind after she blew you off?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
IKO69
Master Don Juan
Well, you have to remember these aren't rando women you just met that you don't really have a connection with. There was investment even if it didn't work out or whatever - doesn't matter how bad things part of them still cares even if they tell you that you are the "worst guy on earth". I have found that the juice is almost never worth the squeeze - I have been on both ends: both the person dumped and the person who decided to dump. It really did not take me to long to realize why I had dumped the person previously if I had decided to give them another chance. At first when I would get dumped I would go through a period of disappointment and longing to have the person back - there were times it did happen and I honestly realized she wasn't as great as I thought. In some cases they were harsh towards me; I was caught by surprise (*at getting dumped*) and the dissolution of the relationship meant talking bad about me, having people that I thought were friends turning their back & ignoring me (mostly her friends that I met through her), all that kind of ****.
What I am basically saying is whenever things don't work out it it is almost never worthwhile to revisit - too much trust is usually lost in the process. It's best to just take whatever good there is from it, see it as the next rung on the ladder you are climbing (because there is always is something to learn, even if you fail) and let go and move on.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Simply no. Like in sales I close. It's better to source more. Work volume.