"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone ever change her mind after she blew you off?

ubercat

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Another weird thing about chicks is sometimes they will break up with you and keep wanting to fvck you. I normally turn it down too corrosive to self respect. I can understand 1 sympathy or beak up fvck just from vag tingling from the drama. But to keep accepting your penis while rejecting you WTF. Maybe their monkey branch guy walked.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Another weird thing about chicks is sometimes they will break up with you and keep wanting to fvck you. I normally turn it down too corrosive to self respect. I can understand 1 sympathy or beak up fvck just from vag tingling from the drama. But to keep accepting your penis while rejecting you WTF. Maybe their monkey branch guy walked.
Well, you have to remember these aren't rando women you just met that you don't really have a connection with. There was investment even if it didn't work out or whatever - doesn't matter how bad things part of them still cares even if they tell you that you are the "worst guy on earth". I have found that the juice is almost never worth the squeeze - I have been on both ends: both the person dumped and the person who decided to dump. It really did not take me to long to realize why I had dumped the person previously if I had decided to give them another chance. At first when I would get dumped I would go through a period of disappointment and longing to have the person back - there were times it did happen and I honestly realized she wasn't as great as I thought. In some cases they were harsh towards me; I was caught by surprise (*at getting dumped*) and the dissolution of the relationship meant talking bad about me, having people that I thought were friends turning their back & ignoring me (mostly her friends that I met through her), all that kind of ****.

What I am basically saying is whenever things don't work out it it is almost never worthwhile to revisit - too much trust is usually lost in the process. It's best to just take whatever good there is from it, see it as the next rung on the ladder you are climbing (because there is always is something to learn, even if you fail) and let go and move on.
 

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Simply no. Like in sales I close. It's better to source more. Work volume.
 
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