"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone else dating life take a hit since quarantine

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I used to date and bang 8-9’s on the regular because I thrived in the bar and club scene. I mean I used to bang girls all the time that I could not pull online.

You see in the real world a girl just has to find you attractive( (above average looking) to have a shot with her and from there it’s all your approach and your game. Things like your voice height game and style come into play. Unfortunately in the online world unless the girl thinks your extremely attractive you have absolutely no shot.

Covid absolutely ruined things for guys that relied heavily on their game and presence to slay!!

Of course if you have no game, or you dated down your whole life, or if your a 9/10 facially your life probably hasn’t changed at all.

But yeah Looks like the days of slaying A plus quality poon out in Los Angeles are behind me fellas. Online date Is pure trash and I can’t pill
the 9’s on there, but refuse to be seen in public with a 6 or 7. I had an amazing life now I’m into an afc I swear. Too much pride to recycle plates too can’t do it
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyone disagreeing with me, When Los Angeles opened briefly before the shutdown I went out for drinks got a number at a bar of a legitimate dime piece model. Literally my First day out. Unbelievable I can’t even **** a 7 online
 

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what's wrong with banging a 7? lol
I will be in LA soon for business, are beaches still closed as well?

I totally get where you're coming from OP my only advice would be social circle and if you don't have that, then maybe try putting up better pictures.

Just my thoughts
 

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what's wrong with banging a 7? lol
I will be in LA soon for business, are beaches still closed as well?

I totally get where you're coming from OP my only advice would be social circle and if you don't have that, then maybe try putting up better pictures.

Just my thoughts
Beaches are open but you need to wear masks
 

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I used to date and bang 8-9’s on the regular because I thrived in the bar and club scene. I mean I used to bang girls all the time that I could not pull online.

You see in the real world a girl just has to find you attractive( (above average looking) to have a shot with her and from there it’s all your approach and your game. Things like your voice height game and style come into play. Unfortunately in the online world unless the girl thinks your extremely attractive you have absolutely no shot.

Covid absolutely ruined things for guys that relied heavily on their game and presence to slay!!

Of course if you have no game, or you dated down your whole life, or if your a 9/10 facially your life probably hasn’t changed at all.

But yeah Looks like the days of slaying A plus quality poon out in Los Angeles are behind me fellas. Online date Is pure trash and I can’t pill
the 9’s on there, but refuse to be seen in public with a 6 or 7. I had an amazing life now I’m into an afc I swear. Too much pride to recycle plates too can’t do it
You were probably good in those bars. Over time the patrons and bartenders and management are familiar with you and cool with you and pulling is easy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You were probably good in those bars. Over time the patrons and bartenders and management are familiar with you and cool with you and pulling is easy.
that and i dress well. I would say the top 1% of guys literally **** 80%-90% of the hottest tinder chicks.
 

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that and i dress well. I would say in the online world the top 1% of guys literally **** 80%-90% of the hottest tinder chicks. In the real world of the top 1% of chicks, I would say at least 50% of them are messing with dudes below them in smv where things like status and sense of humor come into play
 
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