"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone else dating life take a hit since quarantine

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I used to date and bang 8-9’s on the regular because I thrived in the bar and club scene. I mean I used to bang girls all the time that I could not pull online.

You see in the real world a girl just has to find you attractive( (above average looking) to have a shot with her and from there it’s all your approach and your game. Things like your voice height game and style come into play. Unfortunately in the online world unless the girl thinks your extremely attractive you have absolutely no shot.

Covid absolutely ruined things for guys that relied heavily on their game and presence to slay!!

Of course if you have no game, or you dated down your whole life, or if your a 9/10 facially your life probably hasn’t changed at all.

But yeah Looks like the days of slaying A plus quality poon out in Los Angeles are behind me fellas. Online date Is pure trash and I can’t pill
the 9’s on there, but refuse to be seen in public with a 6 or 7. I had an amazing life now I’m into an afc I swear. Too much pride to recycle plates too can’t do it
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone disagreeing with me, When Los Angeles opened briefly before the shutdown I went out for drinks got a number at a bar of a legitimate dime piece model. Literally my First day out. Unbelievable I can’t even **** a 7 online
 

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what's wrong with banging a 7? lol
I will be in LA soon for business, are beaches still closed as well?

I totally get where you're coming from OP my only advice would be social circle and if you don't have that, then maybe try putting up better pictures.

Just my thoughts
 

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what's wrong with banging a 7? lol
I will be in LA soon for business, are beaches still closed as well?

I totally get where you're coming from OP my only advice would be social circle and if you don't have that, then maybe try putting up better pictures.

Just my thoughts
Beaches are open but you need to wear masks
 

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I used to date and bang 8-9’s on the regular because I thrived in the bar and club scene. I mean I used to bang girls all the time that I could not pull online.

You see in the real world a girl just has to find you attractive( (above average looking) to have a shot with her and from there it’s all your approach and your game. Things like your voice height game and style come into play. Unfortunately in the online world unless the girl thinks your extremely attractive you have absolutely no shot.

Covid absolutely ruined things for guys that relied heavily on their game and presence to slay!!

Of course if you have no game, or you dated down your whole life, or if your a 9/10 facially your life probably hasn’t changed at all.

But yeah Looks like the days of slaying A plus quality poon out in Los Angeles are behind me fellas. Online date Is pure trash and I can’t pill
the 9’s on there, but refuse to be seen in public with a 6 or 7. I had an amazing life now I’m into an afc I swear. Too much pride to recycle plates too can’t do it
You were probably good in those bars. Over time the patrons and bartenders and management are familiar with you and cool with you and pulling is easy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You were probably good in those bars. Over time the patrons and bartenders and management are familiar with you and cool with you and pulling is easy.
that and i dress well. I would say the top 1% of guys literally **** 80%-90% of the hottest tinder chicks.
 

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that and i dress well. I would say in the online world the top 1% of guys literally **** 80%-90% of the hottest tinder chicks. In the real world of the top 1% of chicks, I would say at least 50% of them are messing with dudes below them in smv where things like status and sense of humor come into play
 
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