Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Anyone else dating life take a hit since quarantine

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I used to date and bang 8-9’s on the regular because I thrived in the bar and club scene. I mean I used to bang girls all the time that I could not pull online.

You see in the real world a girl just has to find you attractive( (above average looking) to have a shot with her and from there it’s all your approach and your game. Things like your voice height game and style come into play. Unfortunately in the online world unless the girl thinks your extremely attractive you have absolutely no shot.

Covid absolutely ruined things for guys that relied heavily on their game and presence to slay!!

Of course if you have no game, or you dated down your whole life, or if your a 9/10 facially your life probably hasn’t changed at all.

But yeah Looks like the days of slaying A plus quality poon out in Los Angeles are behind me fellas. Online date Is pure trash and I can’t pill
the 9’s on there, but refuse to be seen in public with a 6 or 7. I had an amazing life now I’m into an afc I swear. Too much pride to recycle plates too can’t do it
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone disagreeing with me, When Los Angeles opened briefly before the shutdown I went out for drinks got a number at a bar of a legitimate dime piece model. Literally my First day out. Unbelievable I can’t even **** a 7 online
 

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what's wrong with banging a 7? lol
I will be in LA soon for business, are beaches still closed as well?

I totally get where you're coming from OP my only advice would be social circle and if you don't have that, then maybe try putting up better pictures.

Just my thoughts
 

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what's wrong with banging a 7? lol
I will be in LA soon for business, are beaches still closed as well?

I totally get where you're coming from OP my only advice would be social circle and if you don't have that, then maybe try putting up better pictures.

Just my thoughts
Beaches are open but you need to wear masks
 

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I used to date and bang 8-9’s on the regular because I thrived in the bar and club scene. I mean I used to bang girls all the time that I could not pull online.

You see in the real world a girl just has to find you attractive( (above average looking) to have a shot with her and from there it’s all your approach and your game. Things like your voice height game and style come into play. Unfortunately in the online world unless the girl thinks your extremely attractive you have absolutely no shot.

Covid absolutely ruined things for guys that relied heavily on their game and presence to slay!!

Of course if you have no game, or you dated down your whole life, or if your a 9/10 facially your life probably hasn’t changed at all.

But yeah Looks like the days of slaying A plus quality poon out in Los Angeles are behind me fellas. Online date Is pure trash and I can’t pill
the 9’s on there, but refuse to be seen in public with a 6 or 7. I had an amazing life now I’m into an afc I swear. Too much pride to recycle plates too can’t do it
You were probably good in those bars. Over time the patrons and bartenders and management are familiar with you and cool with you and pulling is easy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You were probably good in those bars. Over time the patrons and bartenders and management are familiar with you and cool with you and pulling is easy.
that and i dress well. I would say the top 1% of guys literally **** 80%-90% of the hottest tinder chicks.
 

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that and i dress well. I would say in the online world the top 1% of guys literally **** 80%-90% of the hottest tinder chicks. In the real world of the top 1% of chicks, I would say at least 50% of them are messing with dudes below them in smv where things like status and sense of humor come into play
 
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