"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone else dating life take a hit since quarantine

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I used to date and bang 8-9’s on the regular because I thrived in the bar and club scene. I mean I used to bang girls all the time that I could not pull online.

You see in the real world a girl just has to find you attractive( (above average looking) to have a shot with her and from there it’s all your approach and your game. Things like your voice height game and style come into play. Unfortunately in the online world unless the girl thinks your extremely attractive you have absolutely no shot.

Covid absolutely ruined things for guys that relied heavily on their game and presence to slay!!

Of course if you have no game, or you dated down your whole life, or if your a 9/10 facially your life probably hasn’t changed at all.

But yeah Looks like the days of slaying A plus quality poon out in Los Angeles are behind me fellas. Online date Is pure trash and I can’t pill
the 9’s on there, but refuse to be seen in public with a 6 or 7. I had an amazing life now I’m into an afc I swear. Too much pride to recycle plates too can’t do it
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Anyone disagreeing with me, When Los Angeles opened briefly before the shutdown I went out for drinks got a number at a bar of a legitimate dime piece model. Literally my First day out. Unbelievable I can’t even **** a 7 online
 

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what's wrong with banging a 7? lol
I will be in LA soon for business, are beaches still closed as well?

I totally get where you're coming from OP my only advice would be social circle and if you don't have that, then maybe try putting up better pictures.

Just my thoughts
 

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what's wrong with banging a 7? lol
I will be in LA soon for business, are beaches still closed as well?

I totally get where you're coming from OP my only advice would be social circle and if you don't have that, then maybe try putting up better pictures.

Just my thoughts
Beaches are open but you need to wear masks
 

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I used to date and bang 8-9’s on the regular because I thrived in the bar and club scene. I mean I used to bang girls all the time that I could not pull online.

You see in the real world a girl just has to find you attractive( (above average looking) to have a shot with her and from there it’s all your approach and your game. Things like your voice height game and style come into play. Unfortunately in the online world unless the girl thinks your extremely attractive you have absolutely no shot.

Covid absolutely ruined things for guys that relied heavily on their game and presence to slay!!

Of course if you have no game, or you dated down your whole life, or if your a 9/10 facially your life probably hasn’t changed at all.

But yeah Looks like the days of slaying A plus quality poon out in Los Angeles are behind me fellas. Online date Is pure trash and I can’t pill
the 9’s on there, but refuse to be seen in public with a 6 or 7. I had an amazing life now I’m into an afc I swear. Too much pride to recycle plates too can’t do it
You were probably good in those bars. Over time the patrons and bartenders and management are familiar with you and cool with you and pulling is easy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You were probably good in those bars. Over time the patrons and bartenders and management are familiar with you and cool with you and pulling is easy.
that and i dress well. I would say the top 1% of guys literally **** 80%-90% of the hottest tinder chicks.
 

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that and i dress well. I would say in the online world the top 1% of guys literally **** 80%-90% of the hottest tinder chicks. In the real world of the top 1% of chicks, I would say at least 50% of them are messing with dudes below them in smv where things like status and sense of humor come into play
 
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