Don The Magic Juan
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Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No, starting conversations with ****y and funny girls.Call_Me_Daddy said:You mean start a conversation with girls using ****y and Funny.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm not in the above conversation. Just regular conversations in my classroom. For exampleMind_Body_Soul said:Who are you exactly in the above conversation? I'm not seeing the c+f.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.Don The Magic Juan said:Teacher: Maybe next trimester I will have a better looking class
Girl: Have you looked at me? I'm beautiful
You don't see that as C&F? What is it?
****y?Call_Me_Daddy said:No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.
There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl!Don The Magic Juan said:Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
So what would you consider this kind of female?Last Man Standing said:There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl!So your question is invalid.
Butch.Don The Magic Juan said:So what would you consider this kind of female?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!Don The Magic Juan said:So what would you consider this kind of female?
Would C&F work on this type of female?Last Man Standing said:C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!
Good advice. Thanks.christz said:in that convo when she said
have you looked at me?
yeah and i'm still looking.
that's C+F, these girls eat that shyt up. she'll probably counter you with shut up! and you should say.. hey i'm just makeing an observation.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.