Don The Magic Juan
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Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No, starting conversations with ****y and funny girls.Call_Me_Daddy said:You mean start a conversation with girls using ****y and Funny.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm not in the above conversation. Just regular conversations in my classroom. For exampleMind_Body_Soul said:Who are you exactly in the above conversation? I'm not seeing the c+f.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.Don The Magic Juan said:Teacher: Maybe next trimester I will have a better looking class
Girl: Have you looked at me? I'm beautiful
You don't see that as C&F? What is it?
****y?Call_Me_Daddy said:No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.
There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl!Don The Magic Juan said:Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
So what would you consider this kind of female?Last Man Standing said:There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl!So your question is invalid.
Butch.Don The Magic Juan said:So what would you consider this kind of female?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!Don The Magic Juan said:So what would you consider this kind of female?
Would C&F work on this type of female?Last Man Standing said:C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!
Good advice. Thanks.christz said:in that convo when she said
have you looked at me?
yeah and i'm still looking.
that's C+F, these girls eat that shyt up. she'll probably counter you with shut up! and you should say.. hey i'm just makeing an observation.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.