"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anybody got Advice on How to Talk to ****y & Funny Girls?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Those are the easiest to talk to. bust each others balls till you get into a tickling match. Aim the C+F at her ass till you grab it, or she grabs yours.
 
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"so I heard you think you're fiesty. Well, Im the fvcking champ around here, dont you know that?"

that'll get her going
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would this be considered ****y & Funny

Teacher: Maybe next trimester I will have a better looking class
Girl: Have you looked at me?
 
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Mind_Body_Soul said:
Who are you exactly in the above conversation? I'm not seeing the c+f.
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I'm not in the above conversation. Just regular conversations in my classroom. For example

Teacher: Maybe next trimester I will have a better looking class
Girl: Have you looked at me? I'm beautiful

You don't see that as C&F? What is it?
 
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I see the C+F in what the teacher said, sorta. It's more ****y than funny. I don't see it in what the girl said - I only see arrogance, unless the girl is a total dog.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don The Magic Juan said:
Teacher: Maybe next trimester I will have a better looking class
Girl: Have you looked at me? I'm beautiful

You don't see that as C&F? What is it?
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No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.
 
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Don The Magic Juan said:
Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
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There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl! :rolleyes: So your question is invalid.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don The Magic Juan said:
So what would you consider this kind of female?
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C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!
 
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Last Man Standing said:
C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!
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Would C&F work on this type of female?
 
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in that convo when she said

have you looked at me?

yeah and i'm still looking.

that's C+F, these girls eat that shyt up. she'll probably counter you with shut up! and you should say.. hey i'm just makeing an observation.
 
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christz said:
in that convo when she said

have you looked at me?

yeah and i'm still looking.

that's C+F, these girls eat that shyt up. she'll probably counter you with shut up! and you should say.. hey i'm just makeing an observation.
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Good advice. Thanks.
 
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Just the same as any other chick

If she is rude, simply don't talk to her. If she is ****y in the charming sorta way, bring out you're more charming side and compliment her charming personality. One caveat: if are not convincingly ****y or witty, don't try and verbal spar with her. You'll only get yourself hurt(emotionally). Simply be cool and let her take the lead, and counter.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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