Don The Magic Juan
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Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No, starting conversations with ****y and funny girls.Call_Me_Daddy said:You mean start a conversation with girls using ****y and Funny.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm not in the above conversation. Just regular conversations in my classroom. For exampleMind_Body_Soul said:Who are you exactly in the above conversation? I'm not seeing the c+f.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.Don The Magic Juan said:Teacher: Maybe next trimester I will have a better looking class
Girl: Have you looked at me? I'm beautiful
You don't see that as C&F? What is it?
****y?Call_Me_Daddy said:No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.
There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl!Don The Magic Juan said:Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
So what would you consider this kind of female?Last Man Standing said:There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl!So your question is invalid.
Butch.Don The Magic Juan said:So what would you consider this kind of female?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!Don The Magic Juan said:So what would you consider this kind of female?
Would C&F work on this type of female?Last Man Standing said:C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!
Good advice. Thanks.christz said:in that convo when she said
have you looked at me?
yeah and i'm still looking.
that's C+F, these girls eat that shyt up. she'll probably counter you with shut up! and you should say.. hey i'm just makeing an observation.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.