Don The Magic Juan
Don Juan
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Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No, starting conversations with ****y and funny girls.Call_Me_Daddy said:You mean start a conversation with girls using ****y and Funny.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm not in the above conversation. Just regular conversations in my classroom. For exampleMind_Body_Soul said:Who are you exactly in the above conversation? I'm not seeing the c+f.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.Don The Magic Juan said:Teacher: Maybe next trimester I will have a better looking class
Girl: Have you looked at me? I'm beautiful
You don't see that as C&F? What is it?
****y?Call_Me_Daddy said:No. It doesn't sound funny at all. Kind of lame actually.
There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl!Don The Magic Juan said:Anybody have any advice on how to talk and start conversations with ****y & funny girls?
So what would you consider this kind of female?Last Man Standing said:There is no such thing as a ****y and funny girl!So your question is invalid.
Butch.Don The Magic Juan said:So what would you consider this kind of female?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!Don The Magic Juan said:So what would you consider this kind of female?
Would C&F work on this type of female?Last Man Standing said:C&F are masculine traits only but not all guys have it - but no woman possesses it! Women are silly and playful - they 'react' to a man's C&F!
Good advice. Thanks.christz said:in that convo when she said
have you looked at me?
yeah and i'm still looking.
that's C+F, these girls eat that shyt up. she'll probably counter you with shut up! and you should say.. hey i'm just makeing an observation.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.