“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Any tips for clearing the mind on a night?

ben489

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I'm still in the process of getting over a breakup due to some circumstances that resurfaced a lot of cr*p this week and I can't seem to clear my mind when I lie down or want to goto sleep. Has anybody got any tips/pointers please?

Just want to stop her creeping back into my head really :)

Cheers
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Purefilth

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Time is the only answer there really buddy. Its hard, and it sucks, but your heads gonna go into that place.

Maybe try to focus on the bad things, realise that her **** stinks too and she really wasn't worth the time of day.
 

rhythmic

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I'm there too.

1. Do new things, things that you didn't do together.
2. Spend time around people you have a good time with as much as possible.
3. As Purefilth said, focus on what you weren't happy with. There are always more women, women who won't have the faults that she did.
 

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You have to surrender to sleep. By thinking "I want to go to sleep" or "I have to go to sleep" you are forcing it or even fighting it in sense.

Close your eyes and let your mind go. Don't try to think or not think. Just let go.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dap

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Make sure you are getting up early enough in the AM. Make sure you are working out during the day. Don't watch TV or use your computer in the hour before bed. Instead, read a book/magazine or whatever in low light. Your brain naturally releases melatonin when your retina starts to noticed lower light levels. TV/laptop prevents this.
 

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Step 1. Create a top 10 list (or top 20) of fun things you wanna do that have nothing to do with sex.

Step 2. Do the things on your list!

And if you are having trouble sleeping at night, try filling up your stomach.
Sleep works in the same neural pathways that digestion does. It always helps me get to sleep.
 
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