Gateway
Don Juan
hey any PUAs in vancouver it'd be nice to have some company i'm actually not bad approaching is a where my weakness is but once i've approached i can really dish out my game so if anyone is looking for a wing during the pickup...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Any PUAs in Vancouver
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
Im in vancouver.. anyone else here from van?
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah same here..surrey area..
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
any good places to sarge around here?
Hey, i'm in Vancouver too. A bunch of us should get together and sarge at one of the clubs downtown. Atlantis for asian girls, though i find them the hardest; library square on fridays for 80's rock night, for some reason, tons of 17-24 year old HBs (at least the last time I was there). I heared Plush and Tonic are supposed to be good too, but i've never been.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah we should get together.. i got hook ups to clubs seein as i use to be a promoter.. but i rather go somewhere else.. not always clubs u know..
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah thats the only problem.. only places i could think of are downtown or metrotown i dont know many other places..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
haha .. man I want to start like a hitch type thing in vancouver.. any good ideas on how i could go about doin that?
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah ima try to go by word of mouth more.. you have msn guy.. so we can talk about **** in surrey or van? pm me..
AsianPlayboy
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I'll be in Vancouver teaching at the end of October. Done programs in Montreal and Toronto, but I hear that supposedly Vancouver tops them all when it comes to quality. Can't wait!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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