Gateway
Don Juan
hey any PUAs in vancouver it'd be nice to have some company i'm actually not bad approaching is a where my weakness is but once i've approached i can really dish out my game so if anyone is looking for a wing during the pickup...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Any PUAs in Vancouver
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
Im in vancouver.. anyone else here from van?
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah same here..surrey area..
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
any good places to sarge around here?
Hey, i'm in Vancouver too. A bunch of us should get together and sarge at one of the clubs downtown. Atlantis for asian girls, though i find them the hardest; library square on fridays for 80's rock night, for some reason, tons of 17-24 year old HBs (at least the last time I was there). I heared Plush and Tonic are supposed to be good too, but i've never been.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah we should get together.. i got hook ups to clubs seein as i use to be a promoter.. but i rather go somewhere else.. not always clubs u know..
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah thats the only problem.. only places i could think of are downtown or metrotown i dont know many other places..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
haha .. man I want to start like a hitch type thing in vancouver.. any good ideas on how i could go about doin that?
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah ima try to go by word of mouth more.. you have msn guy.. so we can talk about **** in surrey or van? pm me..
AsianPlayboy
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I'll be in Vancouver teaching at the end of October. Done programs in Montreal and Toronto, but I hear that supposedly Vancouver tops them all when it comes to quality. Can't wait!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
newseducer
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